Over the last several weeks my wife and I spent time in Ukraine completing paperwork associated with adoption. While we greatly enjoyed our time there it was incredibly difficult to leave without bringing our children home.
Five days after we returned to the States, my mom passed away at the age of 57.
International adoption is emotional. Losing family is difficult.
Life has been chaotic.
We have been elevated in prayer which is a tremendous help. We’ve learned a lot about the culture of Ukraine. And we had a trip of a lifetime.
Yet, here we are – where we have been for years: waiting, praying, reflecting, learning, and hoping.
During this time, it is clear: we are not in control. As much as we want to be, and as much as we think we are – time after time, we see the crystal clear picture that we are not.
It’s a valuable lesson that helps us remember just how small we really are. It helps us recall previous life experiences where God’s plan and timing were better than our own.
What have you experienced in life that reminded you of the fact that ultimately you are not really as in charge as you thought you were?
In a previous post, I shared a quote on character from Andy Andrews in his book The Noticer Returns, “Character is actively doing what is right.”
According to Webster’s Dictionary character is defined as moral strength and self discipline. Another way it is described is reputation. If this is the case, then how is your reputation determined?
Applying Andy Andrews’ definition we could say that your reputation is based upon what you are actively doing.
What are you actively doing? On a day to day basis are you aware of your actions as well as what your actions say about your character? In the morning what defines you? afternoon? evening? Is it work, your commute, your family, something else?
In order to improve our reputation anywhere we can take three steps.
- Do the right thing. We always have choices to make, we can do what’s right or not. When we actively do what’s right we demonstrate to others that we are worthy of their trust and confidence.
- Take responsibility for your actions. We can make excuses, blame others, or simply accept responsibility for our own choices, and the consequences of those actions. Others will appreciate your honesty and maturity when you take credit for things that work out well, or things not working out so well.
- Avoid the blame game. Anyone can identify a problem and assign blame. Similar to number two, when you refuse to blame others/circumstances you demonstrate to others that you are different.
What are ways you strive to develop/demonstrate your character in public and privately? What one thing would you add to the list to someone improve their reputation?
How do you define character? (Leave a response below)
Here at Sparkvoice the intention is to be a place to offer encouragement. This encouragement comes in the form of written words, spoken words, and referrals to good sources of information. It also means sharing stories of people doing good things to impact the world.
Today’s post is about Hannah’s Hope Children’s Home in Cambodia and here’s what they’re all about, “Hannah’s Hope Children Home provides a safe environment to orphaned and abandoned children in the country of Cambodia. The purpose is to promote the physical, emotional, and spiritual well-being of abandoned and orphaned children.”
This is unique because Cambodia is not a place where U.S. citizens can adopt from, and it’s been a place notorious for child-trafficking. Couple that with significant poverty, and you can understand how/why orphan care is vital.
Hannah’s Hope Children’s Home enrolls the children in school (often times for the first time ever), provides for their meals, delivers a Christian home environment, as well as a tutor.
Why is this a good work? Hannah’s Hope, is not only helping meet the children’s need physically, but spiritually as well.
Why is that important? Imagine your life with those needs being unmet. Who would you be? Where would you be? How would you know what you know now?
Hannah’s Hope is actively trying to better the lives of children who’ve been abandoned, those who are cast out, and who would otherwise be hopeless.
What can we do to support Hannah’s Hope? You can visit while on vacation, sponsor a child, tour the home, or organize a mission trip, and pray. They are a 501 3(c) organization which means your gifts are tax deductible. This year they are seeking to replace a motorcycle and tote called a “tuck-tuck” as well as add a seating area to the rear of a flatbed truck. Visit their site directly to learn more.
Here is the verse of inspiration for the children’s home:
1st Samuel 1:11 “And she made a vow, saying, “Lord Almighty, if you will only look on your servant’s misery and remember me, and not forget your servant but give her a son, then I will give him to the Lord for all the days of his life…” via Biblegateway.com
Can you imagine your life as a child without your mom and dad? What inspires you to do good work?
Are there other projects or works that could be featured here? If so, please leave a comment, send me a direct message on twitter @sparkvoice, or drop me a note via email.
This is a lesson recently taught at my home congregation. This is a direct link to the audio file.
In it we discuss our desire for control, our heart, compulsion, as well as how walking as a parent relates to God.
Questions to consider:
- Are you and I careful and thoughtful in how we serve?
- Is sin crouching at your door?
- Do we have a faithful attitude?
- Do we know what it means to walk with God?
- How is your heart?
Key verses to read:
- Hebrews 11:4-6
- Genesis 4:2-15
- Genesis 5:21-24
- If you do what is right, you will be accepted.
- There is nothing God expects of us that we are not equipped to do.
- Walking with God is not a forced march, rather it’s a choice to walk in faith alongside of him.
When it comes to faith, are you willing to walk with God? What does that look like for you on a daily basis? What is your favorite story of faith in the Bible?
Sheer Drop. Abyss. These are the descriptive words to illustrate a country’s culture using illustrative stories. TC Avey goes for your heart and mind with her futuristic book of stories, questions, and links to current news stories.
In many ways her book is controversial, but not in a bad way. It just “stirs the pot”. TC uses various short stories, news articles, and questions to challenge any reader on matters of culture, technology, and heart.
These stories at first seem far-fetched and futuristic, almost sci-fi. Yet they grab you, fling you toward a mirror and demand an answer. You are confronted with situations to help you mentally work through tumultuous circumstances. TC begs the question, what would you do? How would you react? Where is your faith in the midst of these stories?
After being confronted with this, you are given article after article to demonstrate just how close the “futurist” stories actually are.
Here’s why I suggest you read this book – you will be challenged, regardless of where you come from.
TC Avey is a Christian, wife, mom, and blogger who takes modern events and helps people see how God is at work. Purchase her book between April 3rd and April 14th, email the receipt to her, and receive two additional books for free! NOTE: I received the book for free because I volunteered to read the book and offer constructive feedback. That did not require a positive review. The link to the book above is an affiliate which means I receive compensation if purchased through my link.
Imagine being described as a famed author of a book series that gripped children across Britain and the United States as well as the owner of the rights to a movie series that shattered records. Yes, a tremendous success in writing and with motion pictures.
Now picture yourself as a recently single mom…on welfare. Imagine writing sentence after sentence in a public café, after walking as a way to get your child to sleep.
JK Rowling’s series about a boy named Harry Potter turned her and her characters into household names. Each new book and each new movie release seemed larger than the last.
Her magical escape transformed youth reading while energizing a new age of mythical novels and movies.
Hard work, persistence, and sacrifice helped JK Rowling become wildly successful. It didn’t occur overnight, nor was it easy. While in the middle of poverty and bouts of depression, the outcome she now enjoys would have been impossible to imagine.
In the end, her journey was worth it. Her life, and many others have been transformed.
What are you doing right now that’s worth it? Do you believe in your effort? Leave a comment below.
No matter who you are, or where you come from God is actively seeking you out, opening doors, and waiting for you to listen. Others of us need to remember that our conversion and change of perspective didn’t happen over night.
What’s your story? What are the ways you are laying the foundation for people to change their lives in the future? Leave a comment below.
Imagine being an “angel investor” or a “venture capitalist”. You’re part of a television show where people present business ideas for your consideration of investing your hard earned income. Can you imagine buying an NBA franchise? Mark Cuban is the billionaire owner of the Dallas Mavericks.
Mark Cuban described his early beginning in a series of blog posts entitled, Success & Motivation, in 2004. Here he describes living in an apartment with six people while driving a car that burned oil. He also explains how he was fired from a company for making a sales call in person instead of opening the retail store where he was employed.
Is that how you would prefer to begin your success story?
Not exactly – a total understatement! However, during his time employed at the store, Mark Cuban learned two valuable lessons: 1) A love of working with personal computers; 2) How to get an information advantage.
We don’t always recognize what we’re going through or why. During these times we are often in a place to learn and grow to be better prepared for future success.
What story will be fun for you to tell others about, and what did you learn? Or what is you favorite story to tell regarding your current success? Leave a comment below.
While trying to learn more about leadership and book publishing I came across Michael Hyatt’s blog on intentional leadership. I read his blog, listened to his podcast, and tried to apply what I was learning. Over and over again he gave away more helpful information. When he published his book, Platform, I bought it without hesitation.
Michael Hyatt exemplifies every aspect of Jim Blasingame’s book, Age of the Customer.
One main principal communicated in his book is delivering value. Jim says it this way, “Demonstrate value by contributing before any business is conducted. Contribute first, sell second.” This is demonstrated by people like Michael Nichols who gives you his book, Creating Your Business Vision, when you sign up for his email list. Here he takes a similar approach of Michael Hyatt’s Creating Your Personal Life Plan and applies it to your business. This point is further driven home by the crash test dummy of online business, Pat Flynn. He over-delivers in his e-book on creating ebooks. He takes you along the ride of creating your own e-book with lots of content and visuals. Both Michael Nichols and Pat Flynn give monster value at no cost to you – just signing up for their email list.
Here is a simple way you can do this too: Identify a group of people, or several individuals and send them something of value. Over-deliver! Send a book, a magazine, or an article that applies specifically to that person. If you offer a free ebook on your site, re-read it. Does it add monster value? If not, create one that does.
After you do this, send me a note, comment or tweet about it – what you did, and how it was received.
Have you ever over-delivered for a customer? What was their reaction? Have you ever been the recipient of a person over-delivering? How did it make you feel? Leave a comment below.